July

And it's July....the month I had been dreading for awhile now. A month that has so many ups and downs.
July 11, 2011 - Jaimie passed away
July 11, 2012 - Kalyna's birth day (she passed away July 10)

And then there is July 14 - Micah's birthday (which last year was Kalyna's funeral service)

And now it's July 2013 - And yesterday, July 2nd, we signed the adoption papers for our new adopted daughter.

I have been pondering all of this recently in my mind...and there are a few things that I need to do some writing about.
This July was going to be especially difficult, celebrating Kalyna's one year in Heaven. Although there are many positives to that - she is safe, happy, healthy, and with Jesus - she still left a very large hole in our family and in our hearts. We miss her ever so much.
Her passing started our adoption journey much earlier than we had anticipated....

If you've been reading for awhile than you know that we were open to fostering to adopt, fostering or adopting. We were open to any child, any origin, any gender - we had said preferably under 3 (younger than Micah)...although we had been considering what it might be like to adopt older children...
Then June comes along....we hear about a little girl who is already a crown ward and is in need of a forever family. She'd been bounced a little in the past few months, and was passed over by other families for various reasons. She has no access to family for various reasons and thus it's a closed adoption, which doesn't happen much these days because its good for kids to know or have some connection to their biological family in some way. This little girl doesn't have that either. We are her family now. Sure she will know she is adopted, we won't hide that from her, but we will be her forever family. The one she can count on to not let her go.
So in all the possibilities that there were, we, before we reached Kalyna's 1 year mark, have added a little girl (20 months old) - our beautiful A, to our family - who is not being fostered, but being adopted forever into our family. Yes it has it's challenges...we certainly are busy now...but we will be celebrating Kalyna's one year in Heaven with another little girl in our arms. One that came to us from another family, but from God none the less. She was created and formed and made by Him and His hand has been on her from the very start. God gave her to us.

Is it not amazing the way our Heavenly Father works? He has blessed us with another daughter...one that we will have the privilege of raising. Our Heavenly Father answers prayers. He cares for us, He loves us, He carries us through the hard devastating times. He never lets us go. He didn't let me drown in despair last July....He pulled me out and gave me hope...and now He has given us our new daughter. His timing is also incredible. That He would provide a way to ease our pain this July...we still miss Kalyna, and will forever and she will always be on my mind...but God has given us joy through the pain as well....in the form of a very spunky little girl who will keep us on our toes.
God continues to prove faithful over and over again...and I know He will prove faithful in this new journey we are on as well. Looking back over my blogs from the last year...just helps me realize all the more how God has been seeing us through and had this in mind from the very beginning. He knew what was going to happen and He had this little girl for us even back then - even though we had no idea.

I'll leave you with my favourite verse which never ceases to take on new meanings....

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future.

 ~Jeremiah 29:11~